Pastor’s Corner — October 22

AMEND Together to End Domestic Violence

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and though there is so much violence against the vulnerable in our society, there are groups and people working diligently to change the statistics. Shan Foster, a former NBA player, is using his public visibility to bring awareness. Shan reflects on his travel experience with basketball and mourns the amount of violence he has seen. He also mourns our own culture that supports violence. He is the senior director of external affairs of the YWCA of Nashville and Middle Tennessee, and he has partnered with United Methodist Men to lead a group series that will teach men to recognize, respond to, and prevent violence against women, girls, boys and other men.

The group visits middle and high schools in the Tennessee area to teach healthy manhood, healthy masculinity, respect of women, and practical ways to hold each other accountable. Shan’s goal is to engage good men to be a part of the solution by challenging and changing the culture that supports violence.

“At the end of the day, this is a men’s issue,” Shan states. So, they are encouraging men to not stand on the sidelines but to be a part of the solution. The groups become a safe place for men to express how they are feeling and to be heard and supported. They allow men to be vulnerable and talk about possible violence they have experienced as well.

This partnership with United Methodist Men allows the movement to reach further than Tennessee. Let’s help them by spreading this program here in Helena!

How are we starting conversations with older men about what it means to be good role models of being a good partner and spouse, a good father-figure, and a productive citizen of society? How are we teaching our young boys and young men to function in a violent society? How do we create safe spaces for men to be vulnerable and feel supported?

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Pastor Sami