Pastor’s Corner 10/20/2019

Borrow the Sugar

                 Sarah Lazarovic says, “we don’t borrow sugar as much as we used to…this isn’t to say that pockets of sugar-sharers don’t exist, but most of us avoid asking.” With our 24-hour stores, and it just plain being more simple to buy our own, borrow we must. The fabric of community is fraying, and the habit of borrowing is a habit that knits community and connection.

                 Sarah’s article struck a chord with me because I struggle to borrow. Whether it be a strange work schedule or my introverted ways, I rarely speak to my neighbors, much less ask to borrow something. I come by it naturally, too, coming from Montana with its German Belt roots. Self-sustaining is the thread of most of our northern communities. But, that doesn’t mean borrowing things can’t be a part of the boot straps. In fact, I am sure the key to successful self-sustenance is connection.
                  Sarah continues, “the average drill is used 13 minutes in its lifetime. So, don’t go buy the drill, even if it is on sale. Go borrow your neighbor Jane’s drill. You may feel awkward doing this because asking to borrow something can feel vulnerable. It takes practice to create a culture of sharing.” 
                  Because it is more than borrowing a drill. You are borrowing the drill because you also want to get to know your neighbor Jane. It helps us feel more connected, even if it is loosely. It fights loneliness and sadness.
                  As we explore what being a prophet means, and we continue to ponder what stewardship means, I encourage you to borrow the sugar; to get to know people that society says we are supposed to know. It can be an act of rebellion.
 
To read Sarah’s full article, visit yesmagazine.org
Peace,    
Sami